Paul Roy O'Brien was born on April 2, 1952, in Fort Benning, Georgia, to Harold O'Brien and Margaret (Blanchard) O'Brien. He passed away peacefully on January 11, 2026, in Edmond, Oklahoma, leaving behind a life rich in love, service, and devotion.

Paul met the love of his life, Nancy Cunningham, while they were both in service to their country. They were married on October 3, 1975, in Las Cruces, New Mexico, beginning a love story that spanned more than 50 years. Their life together was filled with adventure, resilience, and deep devotion, as they traveled across the United States many times, always side by side.

Paul proudly served his country in both the United States Army and the United States Navy. His dedication, discipline, and sense of duty were lifelong traits that shaped the man he was: steady, dependable, and strong in quiet ways.

Paul and Nancy spent time living in Edmond, Oklahoma, after moving from Las Vegas, Nevada. Paul had a passion for firearms and craftsmanship, enjoying collecting guns and even attending school to become a gunsmith. He also loved relaxing with his favorite television shows, finding comfort in simple moments at home.

Paul's life was one of service, loyalty, and love. He will be remembered for his devotion to Nancy, his pride in serving his country, and the quiet strength he carried through every chapter of his life.

Survivors include his wife Nancy; son Tom O'Brien; stepson Sean Murphy and wife Angela; stepsister Diana Murphy; sister Donna Heddrick; seven grandchildren and three great grandchildren. Paul was preceded in death by his parents and brother Sherman O'Brien.

Paul's life was one of service, loyalty, and love. He will be remembered for his devotion to Nancy, his pride in serving his country, and the quiet strength he carried through every chapter of his life.

There are no services planned at this time.